boudoir
preparation guide
Welcome!
This page is here to help you feel confident and prepared for your boudoir session with me. Whether you're feeling excited, nervous, or a little bit of both—that's totally normal. I promise you’ll leave the studio with your head held high and a whole new level of confidence.
Your session will feel more like hanging out with a friend than being photographed half-naked by a stranger. The atmosphere is always light, fun, and pressure-free. Your comfort and safety are two of my top priorities.
Feel free to scroll through this page as many times as you’d like before your session. And if you have any questions, please reach out—truly, no question is too small or too silly. I'm here to help you feel amazing every step of the way.
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Scroll Through
Scroll through the body type lingerie guide below to find the best fit for you.
Need outfit ideas?
Click below to check out my Amazon list featuring some of my favorite boudoir pieces. Most items arrive in just 1–2 days, and returns are usually quick and easy. While Shein might be tempting, I’ve found that the quality can be hit or miss—and by the time you’re done replacing items, you’ll likely have spent Amazon prices anyway. Save yourself the stress and grab something that’ll look and feel amazing from the start!
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the client closet
My full sessions (you provide your outfit for quickies) come with client closet access which is sizes XS-3X. If you'd like to make an appointment to come in early to try things on, you're more than welcome to! Text me with your name and that you're wanting to book an styling appointment. (920)-287-6020
Hair+Makeup
Why is hair and makeup highly recommended?
Professional hair and makeup can make a huge difference in your photos—it’s not just about looking glam, it’s about feeling empowered and confident. My artists know how to enhance your features in a way that translates beautifully on camera, whether you want something soft and natural or bold and dramatic. Plus, it gives you a chance to relax and feel pampered before stepping in front of the camera. Many clients say it helps ease their nerves and sets the tone for the whole experience. You deserve to feel your absolute best!
Book a full session and enjoy complimentary professional hair and makeup—or add it on to your Quickie session for an extra touch of glam. Take a moment to relax and let one of my incredible artists pamper you, either right in the studio or just across the street at Salon 511.
Know exactly how you like it or have a stylist of your own? That’s totally okay—I want you to feel comfortable and confident! You’re welcome to arrive with your hair and makeup already done. A few minutes in the beginning of your session is allowed for any needed touch ups.
The Do's
Bring a Duffle Bag
Deciding exactly what to bring to your boudoir session can be stressful, so stop deciding and bring it all! Bring your favorite pairs of underwear, your favorite sweater(s), a robe, a button up, your lingerie, jewelry, thigh high socks, stockings, heels, etc. Jus throw it all into a bag, bring it to the studio, and we’ll help you narrow it down to decide.
Ask for Advice
I’m here for you every step of the way. If you need help picking outfits, don’t be afraid to ask. I’ve virtually shopped with women at VS, Forever 21, TJ Maxx and More, as well as picking outfits from screenshots sent to me online.
Drink More Water
Start drinking more water the week before your session. This will help to keep you hydrated, your skin moisturized and it’s just good for you.
Wax/Shave Before Your Session
Legs & the Choochy!
Make sure if you get a wax or shave, it’s done a few days prior to your session. This way the redness / irritation will be gone completely.
Don't want to shave? Don't care about the hair in your photos? That's fine! Keep it natural.
Hands & Feet
If you have polish, make sure it isn’t chipped, or smudged. Don’t forget about your toes. In my personal opinion, it’s best to steer clear of bright / neon colors and go with something more subtle like nude, light pinks, or french tips.
Make This Your Day
Spend your session day pampering yourself. Take a hot bath or shower the morning of your session. Eat your favorite breakfast. Let yourself become the calm, badass, confident queen you are!
Wear Loose Fitting Clothing
When you arrive to your session, wear something that’s loose fitting and comfy. Put this on about an hour before your session. Tight clothes, like bras and jeans, can create unwanted lines on your skin. Preferably a button or zip up on top: to prevent smudging of your makeup when changing.
Communicate
This shoot is all about YOU! It’s important that you feel comfortable and are having a good time throughout your entire experience with Paytn Blanke Boudoir. Please don’t hesitate to ask questions. No questions is a silly one. I’m here for you every step of the way!
the don'ts
Don't Try Anything New
If you’ve never had your bikini area waxed before, do not try it before your session. The same goes with everything else: tanning (indoor or outdoor), eyebrow tinting, hair dying, eyelash extensions, spray tanning, etc. If you’ve never had these things done, than you cannot be certain as to how your skin or body will react to them.
No Surprises
NO penetration of any kind is allowed.
No oral sex.
It’s okay if it gets a little spicy, but please remain respectful.
No Surprise Chaperone. I must be told at least 24 hours in advance.
Disclose things you might bring that may not be considered "lingerie."
No Spray Tans
Spray tanning is a good way to stain my bedding, chairs, couches, carpets, etc. Please do not spray tan right before your session.
No Fresh Hair Dyes
Dying your hair a few days before your session is a good way to stain my bedding, velvet couch, carpets, etc. Please do not dye your hair a few days before your session. Be sure to have it rinsed out all of the way.
Don'y Skip Breakfast
Not eating will not make you look “skinnier” during your shoot. Make sure you get a meal in before your session. Stay away from foods that make you bloat. You’ll feel like you left a small yoga class when we’re done, so eating is important to keep your strength up.
Don't Forget Anything
Pack your bag at least the night before. If you can’t pack your bag because of a significant other being present the night before, create a list that they won’t find. Feel free to bring a duffel bag as stated before.
Don't Worry Too Much
We’re going to have so much fun creating beautiful images together! Music will be playing the entire time, my stylists will work their magic, I’ll get into the poses before you do, I’ll pose you from head to toe, we’ll laugh and joke the entire time and we’ll end the day with you looking and feeling like the badass queen you are!
DIFFERENT SETS
rain forest
plant swing
silver room
faux shower
The studio
Below are some photos of where to park and how to get to the studio. It can be hard for some to find, so feel free to text or call me.
(920) 287-6020
641 Monroe St. Suit 103 Sheboygan Falls, WI 53085
Park on Broadway st.
Park in front of the Day Dream Cafe or Near By. If you're having a full session, use the big parking lot south of Bloomin on Broadway, not right next to it. Somewhere with more than 2 hour parking.
over the tracks
Head around the corner and over the railroad tracks like you're going to the backdoor of the chamber building or day dream cafe.
My building
You should see the big red Brickner Woolen Mills sign. You'll want to head to the right of it in that indent.
My Door
My door has my logo on it in bright pink. It will take you right up to my studio. The stairs are pretty steep and there isn't an elevator, so please keep that in mind.
the outdoor creek
You will be given this address at the studio if we are starting there, otherwise it will be sent to you prior to your session. It's located right outside of Plymouth, about 15 minutes from the studio.
I have an outdoor changing tent, mirror and towels for you to use at the creek. It's smart to bring something to change into afterwards that can get wet/dirty for on your way home.
Whether you’re a bundle of nerves, or can’t wait until your session date, I know that you’ll walk out of my studio with your head held high, feeling a new level of confidence. You can ask the 200+ women I’ve worked with!
Your favorite music will be playing the entire time.
We’ll start you off in your most comfortable outfit.
I’ll show you how to pose every time.
I’ll coach you once you’re in the pose.
You’ll be so excited to see your images.
And will be itching to come back, again.
PLUS, you’ll leave looking gorgeous. So, take the day off and plan something fun for after your session.
In fact, the morning of your session you should sleep in. Eat a light breakfast. Drink plenty of water. Take a hot shower or bath. Put your comfy clothes on and come into the studio.
This is YOUR DAY!
Own it.
If you ever have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask! I’m here for you every step of the way.
Much Love,
Paytn